This wand vibrator comes highly recommended by Jessica O’Reilly

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As unique as this option may look in my collection of microphone-shaped wand vibes, the curved head makes it easier to hit my hot spots. Often, my wrist cramps up and my arms tucker out from holding a vibrator at the angle I need to pleasure myself—but I’ve never had that problem with the ergonomic Mega Massager. I also love that this budget-friendly pick includes a knobby silicone sleeve that can slide over the smooth attachment for some extra texture. This wand vibrator comes highly recommended by Jessica O’Reilly, PhD, host of the Sex With Dr. Jess podcast and co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay.

The result is a very intuitive user experience, as well as an impressively quiet one; as far as wand vibes go, the Wand 2 makes very little noise, and it’s easy to maneuver with one hand thanks to the bendy body. Finally, because this is a We-Vibe toy, its 10 intensity levels and 10 vibration patterns can also be accessed from the app for some long-distance play. These products are very small in size and have an oval shape similar to a bullet used in a gun. Most often, the bullet is attached to a control box with a thin wire. The bullet is designed to be inserted into the vagina and is used to stimulate the G-spot. Unlike mini vibrators with shafts, bullets cannot be used to simulate sexual intercourse.

One of the slimmest suction vibrators available , the We-Vibe Melt is our pick for partnered and multi-partnered play. Designed to fit between two bodies during intercourse, it can seamlessly slide in place for non-intrusive clitoral pleasure. Choose from 12 different intensity levels using the buttons on the back of the toy or through the We-Vibe app. This wand from FemmeFunn is one of my all-time favorites, thanks to its simple controls, wide range of vibration patterns, and delightful texture it delivers. Covered in buttery vibrator, body-safe silicone, it feels silky and skinlike—not sticky or tacky, as can be the case with lower-quality toys.

This pretty-in-pink bestseller sends intense stimulation to various pleasure points at multiple vibration speeds. Just give it a quick twist to customise its power setting — anywhere from a steady quiver to deep, intoxicating rumbles. Now, it’s time to spark your sexual imaginations—whether for partnered sex purposes or a good old-fashioned masturbation mission—and treat yourself to one (or more) of the best remote control vibrators. All of these tips and tricks just go to show that with a little ingenuity and an eye for safety, you too can become a master of the art of D.I.Y sex toys.

As a sex toy reviewer for the past decade who’s tried dozens of bullet vibes, I know the landscape well. But sex toys are also an inherently personal choice, so to get a full scope of what’s out there and recommended for a range of people, we reached out to a few experts for their thoughts. From app-enabled buzzers that you can activate with a long-distance partner to diminutive danglers you can wear around your neck, here are all the bullet vibrators worth your money. I’ve tested dozens of suction toys solo and during partner play with people of various gender identities, genitals, and sexual desires. We’ve explored all erogenous zones, direct contact on favorable spots, and enjoyed every one of the vibration patterns and sonic waves that came our way. Based on extensive research, these are the cream of that particular crop, the absolute best clitoral suction toys right now, some of which double as clitoral vibrators and massagers when you’re feeling saucy enough to spice it up.