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How to make a Girl Squirt using your Fingers

Sexual experiences are subjective and varied; what matters most is the comfort and satisfaction of all parties involved. This is normal; it’s the Skene’s glands filling up. Encourage her to let go and ride the wave of sensation. It often accompanies an intense level of arousal and can occur with – or separate from – an orgasm. The fear of a partner’s negative reaction—whether it be surprise, disgust, or disbelief—can further intensify feelings of shame and embarrassment. Don’t let anyone shame you for not being able to squirt, and even more importantly, don’t shame someone for not squirting.

Slowly over a minute or two you want to ramp that up how to squirt, you just want to ramp the speed up. Now look, there’s different motions that you can do and you don’t want to go in there and start pumping right away. If you go in there and start pumping right way like a mad man then you’re not doing it right. You want to build it up slowly, so you can finger her and play around with her and do all that stuff, but when you’re really ready to make squirt then this is what you do. You’re going to put these two together like this and this is what you’re going to put inside of her. This right here is the upper wall of her vagina so if you would turn it around this kind where the clit would be.

You get to hang out in that sweet spot of arousal for way longer, which means more time to enjoy every single moment before that epic finish. No more awkward, quick sessions—just more time to give your partner what she wants, connect, and enjoy the whole ride. With this technique, you’re not just delaying orgasm—you’re making it more explosive. The longer you stay on the edge, the stronger the finish.

While women have their own inhibitions about the act, men often lack the right techniques to accomplish it. Still, they have most probably read about it, watched it on those erotic videos or heard about it from their friends. But because much of the clitoris is buried in tissue, muscle and fat, it can be more complicated and time-consuming to stimulate and bring to orgasm. That anatomical difference is one reason why the term “orgasm gap” was coined — because men’s bodies may make it a bit easier for them to come. Also, someone may experience it and it may not all be just secretory fluids or glands that are secreting. It could be a bit of urine as well because your urethra, which carries the urine from the bladder to the outside of the body, its literally located right below the clitoris.

Two women showed no difference between the chemicals present in their urine and the fluid squirted at orgasm. A few small studies have suggested the milky white fluid comes from Skene glands – tiny structures that drain into the urethra. Some in the medical community believe these glands are akin to the male prostate, although their size and shape differ greatly between women and their exact function is unknown. Bent Spoon is intimate and gives you the perfect angle to work with. By bending our top leg, you create a curve that naturally aims your thrusts toward the G-spot.

“Generally speaking,” said Gray, most men aren’t endowed enough to reach that point. Because of the breathing you just did, “there’ll be more salivation,” said Gray. He explains that an “orgasm” can happen as the kiss heats up, and your tongues are “penetrating” each other’s mouths. Once you’re breathing together — you’ll be in a “trance state,” he said — embrace with a hug.

I’d always put import on giving my partners orgasms. Being able to make them squirt, I imagined, would be almost as rewarding for me as it would be for them. THE FIRST TIME I saw squirting, I didn’t really know what I was looking at. The squirter was named Cytherea, an adult actress who had become synonymous with an ability to ejaculate large volumes of fluid – that was supposedly not pee – during sex acts. So rare was this talent that a 2004 interview with Adult Video News described her as having a “one-of-a-kind sexual gift.” But then, a funny thing happened.

The way a woman squirts varies considerably from one person to the next. Some squirt before or during orgasm, others squirt only after you remove your fingers after her orgasm. As mentioned earlier, there’s no such thing as a universal approach to squirting, only your scientific curiosity.